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| Our darling Mac. |
We thought he was limping because he’d injured his leg while
running from one end of the RV to the other in delighted excitement over our
coming home. Mac greeted us with this ritual of a mad dash every single time we
entered the door. But … the limp wouldn’t be traced to his collision with the
kitchen island. It would turn out to be the first sign—that registered with us—of
a far deeper problem in our dearly loved canine companion. In Episode 36, I walk through our days with our cherished Mac and Molly.
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Thirty plus years ago, my husband Gene and I--married
just a year and parents of a newborn baby girl--accepted the invitation to
serve as resident directors of an educational program in Topsfield,
Massachusetts. We shared a house with nine boys, a cook, a tutor, a lop-eared
rabbit, and a cat. Not long after launching into our two-year tenure, we
discovered our neighbors raised Old English Sheepdogs. On first visit, at first
sight, we fell in love with these charming canines.
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| Puppy-sized M&M |
A puppy, whom we would name Rutter, became the 15th
member of our household. He was a treasure, an utter delight. So, not
surprisingly, nine years ago, when Gene and I finally decided it was time to
get another dog, we went in search of an OES. As no Old English was available
through a rescue at the time, we were referred to a woman in Connecticut who
had some puppies available.
She welcomed us into her home, showed us around,
introduced us to her adult dogs, and then suggested we all head to her
backyard. She then yelled, “Come on, puppies,” and out of the house tumbled,
what gave the appearance of being, a hundred tiny black and white balls of fur.
We had come with the intention of adopting one dog and had determined that we
would wait to see which one would approach. When two did, we knew we
were done for; both had to come home with us. Though, we all bonded
immediately, Molly became especially attached to me, and Mac to Gene. I
remember what a treat it was, on the ride home, to have both of them cuddled up
in my lap. In later years, when they would each tip the scales at 90 plus
pounds, they still expected to share my lap.
We took them to Puppy Kindergarten, which they failed,
miserably. Old English, reputed to be the clowns of the dog world, are
notorious for taking their sweet time to ponder whether their own counsel is
best or whether they should follow the instructions of the humans who share
their lives. Truth be told, however, their failure in obedience training was
more our failure. We should have been more dedicated and persistent in
making certain they would sit, stay and come.
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| Molly looked up at us with pleading eyes. |
In subsequent days and years, we tried bringing in other
trainers—all to little avail. We finally gave up in exasperation after our
experience with a woman from the school of intimidation. She insisted our dogs
needed strict discipline so she stomped on Molly’s paws and yanked on her leash
to show her who was boss. Our sweet, sweet Molly yelped and looked up at us
with pleading eyes. We told the quote unquote “trainer” to leave and decided,
in that moment, that we’d rather have two galumphing goofballs than two dispirited
dejects.
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| Our former home in London Grove, Pennsylvania |
Home for Mac and Molly in their first four years was
Chester County, Pennsylvania where we shared a stucco-over-stone farmhouse, an
Amish-made barn, and acres of green grass and gardens. The four of us spent our
evenings cuddling by the open-hearth fire with our cats Bubby, Mikey, and
Phoebe. The latter two never warmed up to the dogs but Bubby let them know,
from the start, that he was not one who would tolerate trifling so, at the very
least, those three never had much in the way of issues. Mac and Molly
spent most of their days in a 100 by 40-foot fenced-in play yard, and within
those confines, they were masters of all they surveyed. Gene built them a double
doghouse, and also—what we called—their jungle gym, which was an elevated
platform that could be accessed by ramp or steps.
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| My rotator cuff ripped to shreds and then repaired. |
It was sometimes a challenge for us to move them from
the house to the play yard as we had to head down a path and across a drive to
get them there. One never knew what might be in store when taking 200 pounds
plus of dog out on a leash. I should note here that, though Molly’s weight never
exceeded 100, monster Mac hit 110 plus. All 5 foot 2 of me (and I’m actually
quite strong) would try to keep them under control whenever they took me for a
walk, but another dog, a cat, a breeze, a toy, a feather, a squirrel—any little
bit of anything--could distract them. The prospect of taking them anywhere on a
leash always called to mind the chariot race in Ben-Hur. I ended up having
rotator cuff surgery and eventually ceded all on-leash duty to Gene.
M&M, as we called them, had their own room at our
home in Pennsylvania, a room they seemed to take great delight in trashing. I
purchased two monogrammed dog beds from LL Bean. Beautiful beds. Plush,
stylish. Gone. Gone. Put them out for them one night and woke up the next
morning to find pieces scattered everywhere, with wisps of filler floating in
the air. This pair could demolish the
toughest dog toys on the market. They loved to play tug of war with each other,
with us and with the wicker furniture. They loved to play soccer. Mac would
plant his foot on top of a ball and, when we’d kick it, off he’d race. But, for
all of their playfulness, M&M could not—or would not—return a ball.
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| Mac in the play yard, looking a bit like a buffalo. |
Another favored activity for Mac, though not for Molly,
was soaking time in his full-of-refreshing water-on-a-hot-summer-day galvanized
tub. We always wondered whether Molly didn’t share his interest in the tub
because, as a young pup, she’d fallen into a pool and had to be fished out.
Well, in 2010, Gene and I decided to sell our
cherished home in Pennsylvania to embrace life on the road. For eight years, we
had lived in and lavished love upon our 18th century abode. In
stress-filled hours, we’d found peace digging in the earth, filling the house
with art, celebrating and kibitzing over meals with friends and family. And it
was abundantly clear that Mac and Molly also loved our country home, but as we
made plans to be transplanted by the winds, we hoped they, too, would revel in
some new scenery and some new adventures.
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| At Mountaindale Campground, Colorado Springs, Colorado |
We sold, stored or gave away most of our
belongings and purchased a 2011 37-foot Carriage Cameo fifth wheel and a 2011 Dodge Ram 3500 truck with an extended cab. The back seats of the latter could
be laid flat so M&M could stretch out or stand up in comfort. As you might
imagine, there were a great many more adjustments to be made as we
downsized from a four-floor house, a barn, and acreage to three rooms and a
truck.
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| Mac in the truck |
Mac seemed to have the most trouble adjusting.
In our first days in the camper, he would run back and forth, from one end of
the RV to the other, over and over again, seeming to mirror what he did in his
Pennsylvania play yard. At first I scolded him for this behavior, but then I
realized he was just trying to adapt to his new living quarters so I started
comforting him instead and, soon, he stopped his near constant dashing. He
would still, however, run from end to end, when we arrived home after an
absence but this was about welcoming us home. Gene and I never failed to accept
that greeting with smiles and expressions of appreciation.
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| Mac and Molly racing along together, sides touching, at Pistol River, Gold Beach, Oregon. |
Mac and Molly proved to be wonderful road companions.
They traveled with us down the eastern seaboard, across the south, up through
the mountain states and out to the West Coast. From Washington state, we made
our way down the Oregon coast and then headed back east via a route that had us
traveling through California, Nevada, Utah, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas,
Oklahoma, Tennessee and the Carolinas. Then, we packed up again and trekked back
across the country to Arizona, then back east to Florida, and then up to North
Carolina, where we are—at the time of this recording—now sojourning.
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| View from Bright Angel Trail, North Rim, Grand Canyon National Park, Arizona |
Over these years,
we’ve met fascinating people, from gold panners and a family of wild mushroom
pickers in Oregon to a moonshiner in Louisiana, from a mariachi band in Texas
to Gullah-Geechee sweetgrass basket weavers in South Carolina. We’ve spent
delight-filled days marveling at glorious natural wonders from the majestic
Grand Canyon in Arizona to the hoodoo-filled Bryce Amphitheater in Utah, from
the lush and soul-soothing Appalachian Mountains in Tennessee to the barren
salt flats of Badwater in California’s Death Valley.
We’ve work-camped on a
ranch, on a vineyard and in a coastal RV park. I’ve been a guide and instructor
with the Grand Canyon Field Institute and have tromped through the swamp in Big Cypress. Gene has herded 250 head of cattle across eight miles of
the Badlands and operated a rotary hay rake. We’ve risked much but gained much.
Along the way we’ve also had a good many surprise encounters with wild animals,
many of which we found in new and unanticipated habitats.
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| Gator, Big Cypress National Preserve, Ochopee, Florida. |
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| Molly watching the mule deer at Grand Canyon from our camper window. |
Mac and Molly have
shared all of these adventures and a good many misadventures and they’ve
done a splendid job of keeping us on the alert for predators and other
potential threats. In Colorado, we had to be on the lookout for mountain lions.
In Arizona, coyotes. In Wyoming, bears. In Florida, alligators and Burmese
pythons. In South Dakota, the presenting threats were cow patties, burro poop, plague-ridden
prairie dogs, foot-piercing cacti, and boot-swallowing gumbo.
We’ve learned that
it’s best not to allow hundred-pound dogs to ingest the excrement of thousand-pound
cattle that have been injected with sundry vaccines. But I don’t think I will
ever get into my brain—I suppose I am choosing not to understand--why dogs
are so attracted to poop and all other kinds of yick. Mac and Molly loved
nothing better than wallowing in burro poop on the ranch or munching on mule
deer truffles at Grand Canyon, or stuffing their noses into scads of assorted scat
in all 30 of the states we’ve visited over the last five years.
Squashed frogs on
roadways; reefers discarded at rest areas; decaying fish on the beach, ready to
strike rattlers – the pair would be after these in a trice. It’s no wonder, veterinarians we met along
the way always suggested we protect our M&M with snake and lepto vaccines!
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| Gene with Mac and Molly at Bear Creek Dog Park, Colorado Springs, Colorado. |
Sad to say, poop
wasn’t the only questionable food of choice for Mac. He also had a great love for
chocolate and we had to be VERY careful about keeping such treats out of his
reach. I failed at this a couple of times and returned home to find his heart racing
a mile a minute and his breath smelling of the sweet stuff. Also, sad to say, Molly wasn’t beyond serving
as a lookout for Mac. When we exited our truck for just a moment at Dante’s
View in Death Valley National Park, Mac made short work of a bag of artisan
cheeses I’d foolishly left on the floor of the front seat. Molly sat behind the
wheel, smiling broadly while he pilfered the premium provender.
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| Attracting a crowd at Lake Eola Park, Kissimmee, Florida |
Mac and Molly caused a commotion wherever we went. Folks
would cluster about us whether we were parked or in parks, asking to have their
photos taken with the dogs, petting them, asking endless questions about them. And,
if the pair was out and about, they would elicit lots of hysterical laughter
as they engaged in mock combat or raced along with their sides closely touching.
Mac would always sit up straight in a chair in the same
way a person does…he’d sit at table with his paws on the surface, looking like
he was waiting to be served a cup of coffee. In the RV, he had his own special
chair that he would leap into and dig his claws into when he was getting up. He
could and did shake the entire RV with his breathing and rocking. We purchased
a special mitt for him as he was quite the drooler and drippy drinker. He would
spray liquid all over the house if you didn’t head him off. All this we forgave.
I’ll never forget how, when I was under extreme stress
with work, Mac licked his right paw down to the skin till it was bleeding. When
I resigned from the position and returned to health, he stopped the behavior
and never did it again. This, I believe, speaks to the bond we had. In his
body, he gave expression to the turmoil I was feeling within. I imagine we all appreciate friends who come
alongside to share in our pain; Mac certainly did that with me. He and Molly
helped me move through that difficult time in ways I probably still don’t fully
comprehend.
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| The x-ray showing Mac's cancer. |
While on the road, Gene and I sometimes plant
ourselves in a RV park central to an area we want to explore. When we’re in
that mode, we do our exploring and then move on to another place often after
just a few days. We have also, as I mentioned earlier on, enjoyed the
occasional seasonal work camping. We were on such an assignment in Big Cypress,
Florida, when we began to notice a change in Mac. He started to limp and, when Gene
shaved him and Molly down so they might better acclimate to the heat and
humidity of the swamp, we noticed a protuberance on the elbow of his right leg.
An x-ray subsequently revealed that Mac had contracted a cancer, Osteosarcoma.
Our veterinarian, John Morton, of the Golden Gate Animal Clinic in Naples, showed
us copies of the film and it was clear to see where the bone had been eaten
away by the disease.
Mac seemed to suffer a
sharp decline almost immediately after the diagnosis and Dr. Morton told us the
tumors might well have already spread to his chest. He reviewed our options,
but given Mac’s age, the placement of the tumor, and the aggressive nature of
the cancer, we ruled out amputation.
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| Molly comforted Mac by licking between his eyes. She did this so often that Mac developed a brown patch on his face from the enzymes conveyed from Molly's mouth. |
As the days went by, Mac had a harder time
walking on the leg and he couldn’t always control his bowels. His appetite and
thirst, however, never waned. Over these days, we cried. And we cried. And we
cried. And we cuddled with our Mac. Molly spent time each day comforting Mac by
licking between his eyes. She did this so often that Mac developed a brown
patch on his face from the enzymes conveyed from her mouth. We are now quite
certain that she and Mac knew well before we that this illness would take Mac’s
life.
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| Dr. John Morton with his puppy, Peter. |
But ...
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| On the Road with Mac and Molly. |
this won’t be the last
you’ll hear from me on Pet Life Radio as we’ll soon be launching a new
program—Wild Life, Wild Places. The focus of the show will be on
wildlife and animal companions and the human beings who have come alongside to
partner, to save, to preserve, to conserve, and to advocate. You can expect shows on wild horses, sea turtles,
unusual animal friendships, the research being conducted into habitat
soundscapes, tales of my encounters with wildlife in national parks and other
natural spaces and, of course, much more. I hope you’ll be looking for
the program as it launches and I hope you’ll join me as we come alongside wildlife and explore wild places!
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